It has been one of my pet peeves That when I intend to be silent I am always harassed for an answer And receive no meaning. Pythagoras said to say, "Silence is the first stone in Wisdom's temple." I find this satisfactory. It is the perfect response For it will satisfy the selfishness of your interlocutor And give them no response while appeasing them That they are being listened to. However, listen with sincerity and not condescension Otherwise this will not work.